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Amazon Filters Gangbangs, Orgies and Breeding

Originally posted on One Handed Writers.

Amazon has now quietly made it harder for you to find the taboo kinks you want on its site, without notice to its readers, authors, publishers, or anyone.

They’ve simply quietly slapped a bunch of titles under an adult filter that, until recently, only had pseudo incest and “hand bras” (i.e. bare breasts hidden by hands). Now, readers are unable to find what they’re looking for with the basic search and hard working writers are worried about their livelihood.

Amazon now expects their millions of users to click ‘books’ or ‘kindle’ to search for their erotica, and while that might seem obvious to some, it’s not. Amazon operates in the dark with these moral policing decisions, so instead of doing what most other sites have and allowing a ‘safe search on/off’ option, they’ve just arbitrarily decided to “protect” people from smut.

It’s not right. It’s a company making moral decisions despite how it affects their bottom line.

And unfortunately, it’s nothing new. Hell, even Fifty Shades of Grey, a book I’ve seen everywhere, was suppressed from Amazon’s front page when it hit #1. Yet, FSoG is not adult filtered, despite its dubious consent, BDSM, and erotic content.

Amazon is a huge company, and when it makes large, sweeping changes like this, it threatens a lot of people’s income, which I think is very serious. It’s not just authors getting swept under the rug, either, but people who are spending their hard earned money on the site.

With over 86,000 titles in “Erotica” on Amazon, that means there’s twice as many erotic ebooks as scifi. Almost 3 times as many as Horror. Over 4 times as many as Drama.

However, Erotica gets no subgenres, no way of distinguishing itself. There’s no heat levels, no way of knowing if you’re getting contemporary, fantasy, or taboo. Why shouldn’t erotica have these things? Why should erotica readers be punished by being arbitrarily slapped with a hidden tag that so few know about? Why shouldn’t Amazon make it easier for readers to find what they want to read and purchase?

Romance has 120k titles, and 15 subgenres. Fantasy, with its 56k titles has 10 subgenres. Poetry, 43k titles, 11 subgenres. Sure, some things don’t lend so well to subgenres, but erotica is not one of them. Some people love BDSM erotica but the idea of taboo sex makes them sick. If you gave them a taboo incest breeding story, I’m sure they’d think you were sick. So why not introduce subgenres and let people who want BDSM find it easily? Or people who want spicy, erotic romance can easily search it instead of wondering if it’s hidden under erotica or romance.

Instead, it’s all about morality, and the fact that Amazon doesn’t want to be seen as ‘supporting’ erotica. Even giving the genre sub genre categories, like they do with romance, is seen as supporting the filthy, dirty things we write about.

Amazon is a corporation, and yes, they can make corporate decisions, but they are a business first and foremost. Please, please write to Amazon this week and tell them that you’re unhappy with how they handle erotica. Let them know that as an adult, you should have the right and ability to police your own settings, and your own computer, and that a safesearch filter would be a more transparent option for its customers.

Selena Kitt wrote an excellent blog the other day about how censorship affects her. Corporate censorship by Amazon hurts authors, but it hurts readers as well, and you should be offended that they don’t trust you enough to be able to find erotica easily.

Current list of filtered words:

Anything family related: Daddy, Dad, Father, Sister, Brother, Uncle, Family, Sibling(s)
Breeding Related: Breeding, Bred, Impregnation
Vulgar terms: Cum, Cock, Cunt, Pussy, Tits, Fuck, Clit, Sex,
Gangbang
Rough or Reluctant: Rough, Forced
Lactation related: Lactate, Lactating, Lactation
Other: Tentacle

Dark, Taboo Romance

Originally Posted on One Handed Writers as “Valentine’s”.

I’ve never been one to celebrate Valentine’s. I never really saw the point, and from a feminist perspective, I always found it offensive in how it upheld so many stereotypes about women, and men, and how they interact in relationships.

I just don’t buy this idea that women are only interested in having sex with their partner in exchange for material goods, or that men have to take their partner to an expensive, crowded restaurant on one of the busiest days of the year. It’s a societal expectation, however, and people do like that.

Amy's Innocence Pt 1

A sweet, yet somewhat twisted, romance.

I’ve long ago come to terms with the fact that I’m not normal, and that my views on relationships are not normal.

That’s why I don’t feel comfortable writing romance. I can’t empathize with it. For me, relationships are so much more complicated than the standard plot line, and I want to explore that. Romance that isn’t romantic, that isn’t following a prescribed idea of what people want is what arouses and stimulates me.

Don’t get me wrong, people do want their romance to follow certain standards, and there’s nothing wrong with expecting a nice boy meets girl, boy and girl face trials and tribulations, and in the end love conquers all. I just can’t do that plotline justice. I can’t engage readers like that.

Sure I still love seduction. Sure, I love having my characters desire, need and love one another, to feel that there’s something special between them. For there to be this magical pull that keeps bringing them closer.

Instead of exploring that in a romance novel, though, I focus on things that I’m good at. Relationships that are weird and sometimes a bit unbelievable. Relationships that start with sex and end with love, or hate, or indifference. Relationships where they fuck up the order and still manage to get through, changed and different.

Amy's Innocence Pt 2

May/December Erotica always gets me hot, like in the Amy’s Innocence series.

The most romantic story I’ve written to date, I’ve been saving to release for Valentine’s Day. It’s about an innocent farm girl that stumbles upon a rugged ex-military man in the forest near her home, and everything screams at her to want to be touched. All that pent up emotion, that sexuality that she’d never had an outlet for in her isolated life just boils to the surface and makes her need him. She’s an adult that has never been around an adult man that wasn’t a relative, and her body needs him.

Some people wouldn’t term that romantic, but for me, the process of two people finding one another and being able to help one another through a time of intense loneliness is beautiful and romantic in its own way. Sex is a facet of life, something most people crave just like they crave food and shelter. It’s on the lowest tier of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.

So I don’t think there always needs to be this preamble, this lengthy seduction and courting session. Instead, I just let my characters do what comes natural to them. They fuck on the forest floor because there’s nowhere else they can go, and in the end, they have their happily ever after.

This is what my partner and I are good at, and we’ll leave the true romance to people who can fulfill that niche. We’ll stick to the strange relationships that seem almost unbelievable when written down but happens all the time in the real world.

After all, the difference between fiction and reality is that fiction has to make sense!

Amy’s Innocence is only .99 cents for this week, if you want to explore a less traditional and more erotic coming of age romance. Who doesn’t love a pale little redhead losing her virginity to a strong military man, I ask you!

Cock Worship

Originally Posted on One Handed Writers.

I’ve been thinking about cock worship quite a lot lately, though much of what I’ll say will apply to you pussy or breast worship fans too.

Worship is something I’ve always felt a little too shy to do, both in real life and in writing. It always seemed that it would come off as really cheesy and porny, over the top and unrealistic.

Cock Worshipping Goddess

Our second exploration of erotica dedicated to cock worship.

Then I tried writing it! My partner and I wrote a very delicious, very scandalous short to cheer him up after a long, hard week. It was all about him. Four gorgeous women, all desirous of him, begging for their chance to be fucked, lavishing his cock with such diligent affection.

After having the best sex we’d had in years, we agreed that the short went well.

So then we launched into a longer series, a novella where the central kink was cock worship, and it was over the top and absolute fantasy, and it was so hot. I was completely blown away not only by how well it worked for him, but by how well it worked for me!

I loved it! It was a chance to shed my inhibitions and try something out of my comfort zone, and I feel like I’ve grown more as a writer in the last week than I have in the last month. Now I’m hungry for more, desperate to find out what else there is to learn about cock worship in specific, and male sexual tastes in general.

When you think of it and boil it down, who wouldn’t want to feel like they’re so mind blowing it makes others weak in the knees and light in the head? Who wouldn’t want their body licked and sucked and treated so well, especially the part that can feel those sensations so much more acutely?

Dragon's Lair

The Dragonkin’s cock is so big, Anjasa can’t help but bow before him and praise him in the only way she knows how.

Who wouldn’t want every square inch of their sex explored by their loving, doting partner who just selflessly desires that you lay back and enjoy while they get off on giving praise to your sexy body? To feel their hands and mouth and tongue doting upon you, viscous saliva from deep in their throat slickening and lubricating your skin so that all you can feel is the exquisite dedication of your lover?

It makes sense to me now, and it didn’t come off as porny or fake at all. It was quite authentic, and real–just like the act itself we did in the privacy of our own bedroom–and now I just want to keep experimenting with other fetishes that I’ve felt were out of my reach just to challenge myself.

Have you read a really good book with some amazing cock (or breast/pussy) worship scenes? Link it in the comments!

Rape Culture Part 1 – Infantalizing Women

Trigger Warning for discussion of rape, rape fantasies, consensual non-consent, and BDSM. This is a 6 part series that will be updated weekly, focusing on rape culture, rape fantasies, and consent.

I joined a group on FetLife that was dedicated to rape fantasies. My goal was to explore how to reconcile having rape fantasies, and writing rape erotica with my belief that upholding a rape culture is negative to society.

I’m going to be looking at the types of responses, and what I think on them, in parts.

Part 1 – Infantalizing Women

Underneath a lot of the replies was skepticism of feminism, and of the term ‘Rape Culture’. They brought up many things that I agree with — that the idea of continual consent puts the onus on the man to ‘take care’ of his female partner in case she changes her mind and doesn’t inform him. That relying on body language for consent, even if she says yes, is tricky at best, and impossible at worst.

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Normalizing and Desexualizing Kinks

People’s kinks are varied and diverse, and often trail into realms that they’re not interested in or comfortable with in real life. Porn, and other sexual outlets, allow us to explore these things with minimal impact on our day to day life.

However there’s certain people who crave for 24/7 lifestyle fantasies that sometimes involve not all partners realizing the full extent of what it is. While browsing on FetLife the other day, I stumbled across a group that was dedicated to one woman’s fantasy of being sexually harassed in an massively multiplayer online game (MMO or MMORPG).

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Taboo Erotica

Trigger warning – sexualized violence (consensual and non)

I’ve been exploring my sexuality since I was a six year old girl, when I first stumbled upon my father’s Playboys. The first thing I did when I got the Internet was start looking up pornography – specifically hentai, since I loved Sailor Moon at the time. I also read a lot – fiction and non-fiction – that focused frequently on taboo topics – V.C. Andrews is filed under 12+ in my local book stores. I was fascinated by the sex trade, sexual slavery, rape, incest, and sexual deviance as a whole.

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Pedophilia

Pedophilia has nothing to do with actions and everything to do with desires. A pedophile has not molested a child. Child molesters have molested a child as it has everything to do with actions and, often times, very little to do with physical desires.

Because of our complications and confusions of these two terms, particularly in news reporting, we’re cutting down on our compassion and empathy for a group of people with disturbing desires that can be helped. Because of the stigma associated with the word ‘pedophile’, very few seek the help that they should, and without a support network that helps them deal with their unhealthy desires, they may be more likely to actually offend.

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Bodice Rippers

-Trigger Warnings-

Forced seduction. Bodice Rippers. Blackmail. Coercion. Stalking. Dominance.

Romance novels are filled with rape that isn’t called rape. If she says no, and he keeps forcing her into sex, that’s not forced seduction. That’s rape. If he tells her that she has to have sex with him or he’ll reveal a secret she’s been keeping, that’s rape. If he follows her, tells her that she doesn’t know what she’s doing, that they’re meant to be together, then has sex with her despite protests, that’s rape.

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Vampire Ephebophilia

-Trigger Warnings-

Buffy is 15-16 years old when Angel sees her and falls in love with her. He looks to be about 20 or 21, but in reality, he’s over 200 years old.

According to other media, we should be really creeped out. In Pretty Persuasion, we’re supposed to be disgusted by the two 30-something men talking about the two 15 year old girls, after all. We think they’re too old for them, that a sexual relationship with them would have extreme power imbalances. It would be, above that, disgusting, and the fact that they can’t relate to women their own age would be used against them.

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Blog Roundup

I haven’t been around much the last two weeks. My partner has some wrists problems, so it’s been keeping us both from the computer more than we’d like. I’ve still found some excellent new posts, though, so I hope you enjoy!

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