Tag Archive for marriage

Mad Men, Joan, and The Rape

-Trigger warning about rape and domestic violence. Spoiler warning up to Season 5, Episode 3 of Mad Men-

Joan left her husband, Greg, in Mad Men. She informed him that he is not a good person, and that he wasn’t a good person even before his most recent action and “you know exactly what I’m talking about.”

And as a viewer? Yes, yes we did. We watched, horrified and disgusted while he raped her. And it was, undoubtedly, rape. Even though they were in a relationship. Even though she later married him. Even though she was dressed like she ‘wanted’ to be raped, as a charming fellow put it in season 4. Even though she had a history of sexual promiscuity. Even though she at times used her sexuality to get her way.

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Blog Roundup

I haven’t been around much the last two weeks. My partner has some wrists problems, so it’s been keeping us both from the computer more than we’d like. I’ve still found some excellent new posts, though, so I hope you enjoy!

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Proposals and Societal Expectation

Men and women have a lot of set expectations, in relationships and in life. These things that categorize how we are expected to behave can be seen as a helpful guideline, but often times they’re so constrictive that it feels more like a regulation.

That’s why I recently saw a tweet that kind of upset me. Leigh Alexander was talking about video game / geek proposals.

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