Archive for March 14, 2012

Don Draper’s Alcoholism

Don Draper is an alcoholic. No, not just in season 4 when it’s portrayed as a negative thing – he’s always been an alcoholic. He has – conservative estimate that he told his doctor – 5 drinks a day on average, but he’s almost always drinking hard liquor.

Though his addiction to cigarettes is discussed, his alcoholism isn’t until it began affecting his life. Alcoholism, though, doesn’t always affect people’s lives in such obvious ways. The idea of a ‘functioning alcoholic’ isn’t new, and it isn’t unique to this show.

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Single Story Beauty

As I’ve said before, I don’t have a problem with female sex or sexuality, and I don’t believe that people should be ashamed of finding the female form to be attractive or appealing, and I don’t want for Tits and Ass to disappear from video games.

So, then, my problem doesn’t lie in how women are being portrayed in games and other media, but more in how they’re neglected to be portrayed.

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Guest Post: Male Emotions in the Media by Jess C Scott / jessINK

Thanks so much for hosting me today, Femmedia!

Gender and sexuality have always been topics “close to my heart.” Our sexual identity and the way we approach sexuality is a huge part of how we define our sense of self.

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Blog Roundup

I haven’t been around much the last two weeks. My partner has some wrists problems, so it’s been keeping us both from the computer more than we’d like. I’ve still found some excellent new posts, though, so I hope you enjoy!

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Societal Vacuum

I’ve spoken before of how no one lives in a vacuum. The meaning of this is that we aren’t developed in absence of external pressures. Our culture, our parents, our friends, our society, our religion or lack of, our race, our gender; all of this contributes to our values and views.

Living in a vacuum is to ignore the bigger picture, or to ignore the presence of external pressures that we all have put on us. Plenty of people make big decisions based on these external pressures, such as men and women who have children because it’s expected of them by society or their family, or people who take a job closer to home for the convenience. These are external things that we are unable to control but that we mould our lives around.

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(Role)playing the Victim

-Trigger Warning for discussion about rape and violence against men and women-

I was reading an interesting article last year that got me thinking about how victims are expected to be portrayed in text based roleplay communities, especially those who have experienced sexual abuse or violence.

It was about a female journalist who, after seeing the pain and anguish in another woman after she saw one of the men who raped her after the Haitian earthquake, got Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

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Non-Violent Video Games

I spoke last time about violence in video games, especially sexual violence. This time I’d like to speak about the lack of games that don’t feature violence.

Now, when we think non-violent video games, there’s typically two genres that most people think of. Puzzle games, and games for women or kids. Of course combining women and kids is offensive in and of itself, and often is linked to the perception that only children or women would want a game that, say, taught them a new skill (like an art instruction or cooking video game) or to keep them active (such as a sport or exercise game) or allowed them to fantasize about another world (such as a farming or collection game).

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Blog Roundup

Quicky roundup today!

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Violence

-Trigger Warning: I’m speaking about violence, torture, and sexual violence. Skip if that triggers you.-

I’ve often tried to remain conscientious of cultural bias when looking at another country’s customs, doing my best to disseminate the truth from our perception. The perception of the West.

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When Will They Call it a Drinking Problem?

*Will contain spoilers for seasons 1-5 of Big Bang Theory*

Penny, of Big Bang Theory, has a drinking problem.

Apparently no one is talking about it, and it doesn’t seem a likely topic to come up in a serial sitcom with a laugh track. It would be, by far, the most serious issue they’d touch on, so I’m not holding my breath.

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